有你在身旁by光良品冠

路有点长 夜有点微凉 

心情迷迷惘惘 和寂寞交换沮丧 

天边星辰忽明又忽暗 那一颗最能照亮心房 

梦和理想 心坚持不忘 

方向就是力量 和时间交替煎熬 

雾里曙光绽放希望 有你一切都变得不一样 

谢谢你 给我温暖 脆弱时候在我身旁 

谢谢你 陪我成长 路上风风雨雨

不怕荆棘失望 

有你在身旁 心更坚强 

阳光一路陪伴 成长更勇敢 

你我心中不必言语 敞开心窗 

有你在身旁 梦更精彩 

朋友一路陪伴 星光更灿烂 

相信相依共同仰望 

生命因你更添光亮

献给我亲爱的朋友们...只想说，谢谢你们的陪伴 =)

抱歉

猫咪很笨的把旅游照片删掉了...还有之前的一些生活照，一并被“回收”...还好大家没把我宰了 >_<


对不起啊，大家...


如果不开心的回忆是照片，删除之后就遍寻不获；那也许是件好事。

Long Distance by Bruno Mars

A song about LDR (long distance relationships) by one of my favourite singers, Bruno Mars... simple lyrics but emotionally powerful. 


It can be hard...especially when you are feeling lonely and down, but your other half is no where to be found. Communication is something extremely vital. Everyone knows this but its easier said than done. I'm working hard on it as well. 


Its like the whale is outside the ship's radar...(Hmm...weird way to describe, I know. But this is the first thing that comes into my mind. =P ). Before the ship eventually finds the whale, it must make itself perfect, improve its utilities, make sure its able to withstand strong winds and waves, repair all the parts that needed repairing... just like when you can't see your loved ones; you must take the time to improve yourself. Learn something new, like cooking, drawing, whatever. Widen your social circle. Pursue your dreams like its nobody's business. Live life to the fullest. And when your beloved comes back, you will enrich each others' lives by sharing these experiences. 

Childhood memories

This is the playground I went to most when I was a kid.

Sadly, the utilities there are mostly vandalised.

The see saw, one of my favourite things to play, already went missing. 

Paints are everywhere, on the concrete tunnel, on the trees even.

The swing's seats also disappeared, leaving the empty frame of the swing.

In the cold morning breeze, the days I had here seem so distant to me.

Sigh.

很多人说我无论什么时候，脸上都挂着笑容，很难猜测我真正的心情。其实我不像你看到的那么快乐，也不像你看到的那么悲伤。

我不难过？

我觉得自己完全被否定了
一点点的错误
甚至不能说是错误的小事
也让人放到马车轮那么巨大
把我说到一无是处...
真的好难过

A Little Bit Stronger by Sara Evans

Woke up late today, and I still feel the sting of the pain.

But I brushed my teeth anyway, I got dressed through the mess and put a smile on my face.

I got a little bit stronger.

Riding in the car to work, and I’m trying to ignore the hurt.

So I turned on the radio, Stupid song made me think of you,

I listened to it for minute, but then I changed it.

I’m getting a little bit stronger, just a little bit stronger.

And I’m done hopin that we can work it out,

I’m done with how it feels, spinnin my wheels

Lettin you drag my heart around.

And ohhh

And I’m done thinkin, that you could ever change.

I know my heart will never be the same,

but I’m tellin myself I’ll be okay.

Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger.

It doesn’t happen over night, but you turn around and a months gone by,

And you realize you haven’t cried.

I’m not giving you a hour or a second or another minute longer.

I’m busy getting stronger.

And I’m done hopin that we can work it out,

I’m done with how it feels, spinnin my wheels

Lettin you drag my heart around.

And ohhh

And I’m done thinkin, that you could ever change.

I know my heart will never be the same,

but I’m tellin myself I’ll be okay.

Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger.

I get a little bit stronger.

Gettin along without you baby,

I’m better off without you baby,

How does it feel with out me baby?

I’m gettin stronger without you baby.

And I’m done hopin that we can work it out,

I’m done with how it feels, spinnin my wheels

Lettin you drag my heart around.

And ohhh

And I’m done thinkin, that you could ever change.

I know my heart will never be the same,

but I’m tellin myself I’ll be okay,

Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger.

I get a little bit stronger.

I’m just a little bit stronger.

A little bit, a little bit, a little bit stronger.

I get a little bit stronger. 

疑问

          心里一直有这个疑问：爱情是个什么东西呢？古人都会问：问世间情为何物，直叫人生死相许（是真的吧...看戏都看得多咯，一对情侣总是把生死挂在嘴边，生怕对方不知道自己多爱他）。


          所以，是怎么样的魔力能够让人无法自拔、牵肠挂肚？是怎样的耐性和情感让情侣们可以忍受对方的任性，接受对方的缺点，在一次又一次的口角后和好如初？又是怎么样的一种默契让两人能够处变不惊、细水长流？我觉得很多人都没有答案吧...

（网上偶遇的可爱图片)

          有的人不能如愿得到想要的爱情，就一哭二闹三上吊...一些还真的搞出人命（不是制造人命，是把命也丢了）。报纸经常会有这样的报导。难道没了你爱的人，你连命也可以不要？如果他真的爱你，他又会让你去死吗？而你离开的目的，要好好检视...你是要让他内疚一世，还是觉得生无可恋？如果是前者，那我只有一句话：自私！至于后者，不如去做些义工，捐出自己的东西给需要的人，更为有意义。社会需要你，爱你的人更不想你为了一个情字结束生命。


          曾经很多人问过我的爱情...我只能说回忆是美的，也是苦涩的。我不想再过着猜疑的日子，也不想再自怨自艾。或许有些人不适合放在一起，不然就会像你们说的：火星撞地球。现在的自己，有个在远方的他...当然有时会寂寞，有时会孤单...尤其看到身边一对对的情侣能够朝夕相处的时候，更是失落。好像可以听到心里某处又有落叶飘下来那样。哈哈....但那又怎样呢？世界依然在进步，银河系仍然在运行。你可以没有爱情，但你不能因此而站在原地不动啊。


          有时命中注定这句话是对的。是你的最后一定会是你的，逃不出你手掌心；不是的话，你怎么求怎么怨都不会有改变。当然，爱情还是要经营的。如果你得到了爱情，却什么也不做，任它自生自灭，那最后应该也没几个人会继续留在你身边吧？


          最后还是要问...爱情到底是什么啊？